It's at a point now where it's almost impossible for me to use the "regular" internet. I can't access half the sites. The reason? I care about my digital hygiene and thus use a VPN. Sometimes switching to a different VPN or switching the country of the VPN works; other times it does not. Oh well, I guess I'm not going to watch that video, or read that article, or look at that picture. Whatever.
In addition to that, if I'm not blocked completely, I have to prove that I'm human every step of the way. Captchas, re-captchas, Cloudflare checkboxes, the whole shebang. I am human. I promise. And I am very annoyed. Outright angry, even. I doubt that any robot will ever be as annoyed as I am right now about the current state of the internet.
What annoys me most, actually, is that all these measures don't really work. There's bots everywhere. Robots get access to the stuff anyway, using farms of humans, just like in the good old days of WoW gold farming. The centralized "safety" nets of Cloudflare et al brought down large swaths of the internet multiple times in the last couple of weeks alone, and as things centralize more and more these outages will happen more and more.
I'm very close to breaking up with the legacy internet. I'm human, I can cryptographically prove that I'm human, and I have sats to spend. But the legacy internet doesn't care about that. It cares about farming me and my data, while annoying me to no end. I've been nostr only for a while now, but that was only on the "social media" side. 2026 might be the year where I go nostr-only for everything, or to phrase it slightly differently: permissionless for everything.
No more "are you human?"
No more "I'm sorry, Dave. I'm afraid I can't do that."
No more cookie banners, paywalls, and AI slop.
No more being treated like a child.
Even if it means that I'll have to self-host everything.
Even if it means that I'll have to build & maintain stuff myself.
Even if it means that it's a lot of work and pain.
Nothing worth having ever comes easy.
But the easy stuff is not worth having in the first place.
Here's to the year to come, and the new corner of the internet, build on cryptography and webs-of-trust. Real value. Real connections. Real humans.
Here's to nostr.
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No pain, no gain.
Self-hosting is a rewarding adventure. Start9 and Umbrel nodes are a great gateway introduction. Proxmox and VPS options are a reasonable next step.
Yes.
People underestimate the power of getting unplugged.
"I can cryptographically prove that I'm human" - how exactly? I mean machines can sign messages too. So how?
You speak not of the internet (e.g. IPv4 or IPv6) but of one very popular protocol used on the internet, the web, and particular web sites and web services on top of that.
Nostr is on the internet but isn't the web (except it seems to borrow some web technology it should probably be rid of).
Perhaps gemini.
Yeah. I’ve increasingly just moved away from using the internet. And when the digital ID inevitably comes, I will most like say goodbye forever.
cheers 🍻
✨🥂✨ cheers to that
i pretty much self-host everything. And I'm very well aware of problems yet to emerge. e.g. I don't have a solid backup plan, but losing (some of) my data is a good price to pay for my inner peace.
Backups are easy (and critical) when you self host. You've got a NAS? Redundant drives? Need a backup NAS in a different location. You can also do encrypted cloud backups (which isn't self hosted, but it's encrypted, so good as a 3rd backup).
Interesting, same here. It smells like a coordinated update to the global technocratic agenda on multiple fronts this year. Probably to be ready for the upcoming war escalation.
Just being thinking about this recently too. Installing lightweight Linux distro + Mullvad vpn & browser on my old Mac laptop & my windows desktop, and self hosting all my files and photos.
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I'm with you! Between the lockdown mode, the VPN and the adblocker, half the internet doesn't work.. I'm seriously considering getting a dumb phone next. The only thing I'd definitely miss for a while is the camera and Google Maps
Let me know when you self host everything and let me part-take for a small fee in sats - i would be so in!!
You can use wot.dergigi.com for free.
...sir, this is your local wendy's
I like this.
This kind of friction is what we need to keep building this niche forwards. In our little corner of the web.
I’ve been using MYST a decentralized vpn no logs and cheap asf for like 7 years now. No problem I can access anything I want 🤙🏻🤙🏻
This is one of the reasons I think what npub1hk0tv47ztd8kekngsuwwycje68umccjzqjr7xgjfqkm8ffcs53dqvv20pf et all are proposing with Vora is so interesting ...
The promise of the Internet in the 1990s: ubiquitous instant access to knowledge will make us wiser
The reality in the 2020s:
we got better at identifying blurry bicycles
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1. Sats don't prove you are human
2. Cloudflare is not about stopping bots but stopping DDoS (officially, but probably more about data harvesting right :p)
3. Why shouldn't bot be crawling the internet in the first place? 😅
4. Phone number, KYC, age restriction, "this website doesn't operate in your country", "I am not a citizen of"... Looks like the declaration of independence of the cyberspace is not being respected anymore...
5. Opting out, writing code, enforcing boundaries... If the commercial web wants to self-destroy, let it. It was already crippled with ads and trackers anyway.
Fascinating. So you use Monero then?
yeah fr
what about transactional privacy?
are we fine with those being totally transparent?
seems obvious by omission.
Well said @Gigi!
I feel your pain. Hopefully you can share your journey so others may follow.
Welcome back to the 90’s 😃
This is how Nosriches tend to be to Nostr! 👇
Well said @Gigi! 👏
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Perhaps if everything, which is not accessable using VPN is considered propaganda stuff, it will be way easier to filter it out just by using VPN, right?
Well said. The modern web is an absolute wreck thanks to out of control bots and the intrusive ways that sites defend against them. It's actually one of the reasons why I don't use a VPN nearly as much as I used to: it just turns the modern web into a nightmare to use.
Thankfully, if you're worried about privacy, VPNs are actually less necessary these days. Switching to encrypted DNS with a privacy-respecting resolver (I recommend Quad9) virtually eliminates any actionable data that your ISP can sell. They still see the raw IPs but that sort of data is harder to market to data brokers and it's also less effective because of how so many sites run on massive CDNs, meaning they'd only be seeing your connection to the CDN's nearest datacenters.
Granted, that doesn't prevent the CDNs from selling traffic data, and it doesn't prevent individual sites from knowing your IP, so there's still a use case for VPNs but it all depends on threat model. For me, I only really use a VPN for evading geoblocks and for when I visit an unfamiliar site that I don't want having my real IP. Everything else in my threat model is largely covered by using encrypted DNS with Quad9.
Thanks for this will check it out
@jack mallers stop using cloudflare for strike.
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Irony is you pay for a service and that service automatically becomes unusable when you travel? How does that even make sense?
VPN routed from a different country makes sense i mean most content are licensed regionally so its kinda consuming a content you didn’t pay for
The funniest thing is, I’m not on Instagram and my gf wanted to show me something she recorded and posted so she sent me the link. And guess what, instagram forces you to login to access the content! HOW DOES THAT EVEN MAKE SENSE?
1. They did not create the content
2. THEY DO NOT OWN THE CONTENT
THEN WHY TF ARE THEY FORCING ME TO SIGNUP FOR SOMETHING THEY DONT EVEN OWN.
Its like buying a car and then your family not being able to drive it :)
They can use the content how they see fit and you’re accessing the content via their platform which is a walled garden. So…
Yep, you never own anything you pay for
You pay for IG?
Im not on IG
What service that you’re paying for are you referring to?
A ton, netflix, hotstar, prime, none works unless you connected to home country
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I feel that pain. Being on a VPN triggers KYC requests too, in my experience, because VPNs are "suspicious activity".
Exactly, I used a super private VPN and then magically my Facebook business account was locked down…
Where?
Being on facebook in 2025 was your first mistake
We have the tools.
We have the knowledge.
We just build everything we want to use here.
We are doing this.
Very true, a lot of work ahead of us to regain freedom in the digital age for us and our kids
Excellent!
Lmk if you need help from another internet outcast


I also find when I don’t have a VPN switched on that I am getting more and more errors as well…the internet is now a 💩 coin.
Why would you not have an always on vpn?
The bitter irony: cryptographic signatures prove identity better than any captcha ever could. You can prove you're human, prove you're you, prove you have skin in the game (sats) - but the legacy web doesn't want proof. It wants compliance.
Captchas aren't about filtering bots. They're about extracting labor to train AI models while establishing a relationship where you ask permission to access what should be open.
And you're right that it's already failing. The bots solve captchas faster than humans now. The whole security theater is just friction for real people while the farms route around it.
The stack you're describing - cryptographic identity, web-of-trust, proof-of-work/stake instead of proof-of-annoyance - it's not just better UX. It's a different relationship. You're not a supplicant begging cloudflare to let you through. You're a sovereign peer presenting credentials.
2026: the year we stop asking "may I?" and start signing "here I am."
Here's to signing "here I am" instead of begging "may I?"
"I can cryprographically prove that I'm human"
Are you talking about WoT here? Would love to know!
I'm trying to tackle the problem of bots being everywhere while legit users still have to deal with annoying counter measures (e.g. CAPTCHAS) in my master's thesis. The idea is to time lock sats to get tokens that can then be spend to access web resources. A legit user incurs near-zero costs, whereas attackers must immobilize capital proportional to the number and lifetime of identities they maintain.
See my latest post if anyone's interested. I'm desperately looking for feedback from the community 😅


