is it actually downstream of the sexes being more alienated and hostile to each other? this feels like one of the more plausible reasons. to enter the sexual dynamic is to enter a different mode of being. in a way, it's receptive. you harmonize with the other sex, literally.
https://hell.twtr.plus/media/396fbc2dd434a541abb81e5d929b89b30278831e845e25f99010cd98ce99c036.file