men still speak of having a "wife" as if it's something to be proud of just like idiots are proud of "owning" a car ( as opposed to leasing it )
unless the car you own is under warranty what you actually "own" is just the issues that the car has
likewise unless you have a legal right to rape your wife every night or beat her to death for adultery all you actually own is her problems
much better to lease a car where none of the problems with the car are your problems - they are the dealer's problems - you just drive
same goes for women - i just need to nut - any problems a woman has she needs to take somewhere else
depending on your budget this can be solved with porn for $20 a month or with escorts for $500 an hour.