#GM Feeling frustrated. Every time I try to build on Nostr I hit the same wall: yes, it solves identity & pub/sub, but then Iā€™m stuck needing something centralised for ACLs, routing, bootstrapping. Feels like I traded one gatekeeper for a dozen tiny ones. I love what NOSTR is doing, but I can't help but feel that the rest of the stack is still waiting. Is that fair? Am I missing something? Did the hype just wear off or do I still just not get it?