If you are looking to βbeβ something, then be uncompromising in what you do and say. this doesnt mean dont be compassionate, loving, and kind, but rather seek for consistency and omit your half-measures.
the history of the illusory world can be summed up this way: the attempt to preserve guilt through projection, finding fault in everyone but ourselves.
Everything that isnβt love must be a call for it, in whatever form it takes.
you need nothing. any desire for something to fill a perceived void β sex, beauty, fame, money, etc β is a result of our false identification of separate-ness and as individual selves, seemingly needing things in this physical world to meet our lacks and protect/defend what we believe are our individual identities.
In the reality of oneness, wholeness, and spirit, you truly need nothing as you have everything from your Source and share/extend it forever in an eternal state of oneness. The belief in scarcity is a trick of the ego to keep you in a perpetual state of lack & want.
