By ignoring your wants and dropping your standards for her, you signal her that she's out of your league, and she will stop playing with you.
Vilifying a person who criticizes your dumb behavior doesn't make it not dumb.
When searching for truth all participants of the conversation are on the same team. If there's a split into opposing teams, the discussion is over and meaningless emotional arguments have started. You can just leave the conversation and not waste your life.
Without the danger of harmful real life consequences, you can never draw effective conclusions about anything. All the online noise is irrelevant.
So, you eat fake food, live an unhealthy life, and then start taking drugs because you metabolism is damaged or you have other health problems?
What about correcting the problem instead of hiding the symptoms?
It is very easy to determine if the conversation you are having is worthy of your time or not: If the topic shifts to your personality, you can safely stop it. Whoever is interested in finding the truth doesn't try to make it about who you are.
Do you know what the hottest sexual fantasy most women have is?
There is one thing normal people won't understand, because they were brainwashed and trained not to:
All pharmaceuticals are artifical and harmful. Our bodies evolved to use natural stuff. If you don't see the harm directly, it doesn't mean there's none.
A successful, intelligent, effective, and strong person spends the exact same amount of time living their life as a mediocre, weak, unintelligent, lazy person does. And the effort they put in does not feel greater to them, because it is simply their life and their routine, something they do every day, just like mediocre people do whatever they are doing.
The difference is identity. How you see yourself determines what you do, and then everything aligns around that self-image.
The question is: Who are you and where are you going?
Effectiveness, from an evolutionary point of view, is choosing the path of least resistance — doing the least amount of thinking and getting the most pleasure from it. But in the modern world, this is the most destructive way of living and it always leads to misery.