Everything I have ever wanted in my life, I got. And whatever I didn’t intentionally want, I didn’t get.
It is very important to want and imagine things intentionally.
Most people are dumb, lazy, and unattractive. Everyone knows it. Everyone feels it. And you know it too.
You don’t want to hire stupid, lazy people. You don’t want to be friends with them. You don’t want to date unattractive, unhealthy people. Yet most people pretend that none of this exists and that everyone is equally beautiful and desirable.
And when you are weak, stupid, and unattractive, you pretend that none of this exists, because it is a defensive mechanism. You can’t judge others — you are in the same boat. So you pretend that everyone is beautiful, just so you don’t have to face your own weakness and laziness.
And the funniest thing is that when you start working on yourself and level up — become strong, intelligent, attractive, and wealthy — you begin to notice weakness in other people, and it starts irritating you. Your standards rise, and you start seeing the world differently, without defences.
You can't pretend to be strong and brave when an angry dog attacks you. Everyone will feel everything during the incident.
The same is true for people — everyone feels everything — fear, doubt, hesitation, lack of interest, levels of self-respect and self-worth.
So, instead of even trying to pretend, just work on yourself.
If you do sacrifices for her and expect her to sacrifice anything for you, you will be disappointed. In fact, the more you sacrifice for her, the worse the relationship will become.
The only way to let go of a fear is to understand it.
And to understand it, you need to feel it.
Allow yourself to feel the fear.
Never avoid it.
Never be afraid of the fear.
Encouraging a fish to fly is actually a very bad thing to do.
It pushes the fish toward failure, confusion, and self-blame instead of helping it excel at what it is designed to do.
In the same way, modern society promotes delusional ideologies — and this is not random, it is intentional.
When women are encouraged to be warriors instead of wives and mothers, families get destroyed. When families collapse, birth rates collapse too. And that is exactly what they wanted.
Remember the “overpopulation” hysteria?
