Most men fail in relationships not because they chose a bad woman but because they chose an emotionally UNSTABLE one and didn’t see it soon enough. Emotional control in a woman ≠ being cold or quiet (That’s not control, that’s manipulation but that is not the purpose of this post) Emotional control = self-regulation Self-regulation = the ability to feel deeply without letting emotions destroy the relationship because feeling is what makes her a GIRL. A woman with emotional maturity: • Doesn’t insult you when she’s hurt. • Doesn’t try to make you jealous to get attention. • Knows how to calm herself before communicating. • Can disagree without disrespecting. • Doesn’t make you responsible for her moods. Men often chase curves, chaos, thinking “passion” = love when in truth, PEACE and a calm mind is luxury. Emotional intelligence is the most powerful and rarest form of beauty. Her being emotionally stable doesn’t mean she never cries; it means she knows WHEN to cry, HOW to express it, and WHAT to do afterwards. Choosing a woman who can regulate her emotions who isn’t a hurricane or chaos disguised as “passion” means choosing a partner capable of growth, depth, and resilience. If you have a woman like that in your life, congratulations, you found a WIFE. Jointofindlove.com #AskDating #Bitcoin #ASKnostr #NOSTR #Relationships #matchmaking

Being with a man who truly deeply cares about you and wants to nurture you like the beautiful little flower you are, makes your life flourish. A man that wants to invest in your own happiness, when he takes no more benefit than just seeing you thrive, that’s pure love. That’s a gift you shouldn’t be taking for granted. Real love heals. Your skin changes, your smile changes, your gaze changes. The way you treat people and how committed you are. You become kinder, calmer, softer, you like yourself more and suddenly you want to be the best version of yourself not just for him but for you too. The self love you thought you were never going to have for yourself suddenly appears around him. Sometimes love knocks your door when you are not your best self yet, but God sends you someone willing to accept you how you are who is seeing your potential and will help you through the process of improving as a woman, teaching you and guiding you with a patient heart, believing that you are gonna make it. That is the man that deserves your devotion, loyalty and the fruits of your growth. The one who saw you for who you truly were without any masks, allowed you to rest in your feminine energy and not stress about life anymore. The one that made you feel seen, heard and understood. That dynamic becomes addictive. That’s a real man.

I am soooo excited for all the girls that signed up to be part of my slumber party! It will be a beautiful girly night (day for some bc of time difference) where we will be talking about girly things. My friend @olyveyaa on X will be one speaker tomorrow about make up and health. It will be a good opportunity to make new girl friends from all over the world 🌎💝 if you still want to sign up just comment this post and I will add you to the group 💗 View quoted note →

High levels of cortisol lead to depression Cortisol is the hormone of stress That’s why it is so important for men to do their best to make their girls stay at home or have their own little business but not having a corporate job AND it could not only lead to depression but also infertility By making your girl work, you put your own lineage and chances to have healthy kids in danger And don’t forget about hair loss, acne, dermatitis, wrinkles, gastrointestinal problems, inflammatory issues, weight issues etc. By making her work when you should be the one having the responsibility, you are making your own woman uglier