For women to enjoy sex they need to feel it was their idea. For men to enjoy helping out or solving a problem we need to feel it was our idea.
Of course I sold XMR two days ago to pay my credit card. You're welcome. 😅
Pretty nice debrief of the recent @MoneroTopia by WatchmanPrivacy: youtu.be/wmuA3cfpA5w Very thorough and descriptive of my own experience there.