We can have a private public space. This is wild.
I like the feed of nostr. It feels random and free. Close friends rarely appear on my main feed. I find myself visiting their profiles to see how they are. I wouldn't describe it as "lost in the doom of twitter". I would describe it more like a concert. Loads of people congregated to hear the music of life. You need to go through oceans of people so you can find your friends. And you meet some wild cats along the ride that change your course and the course of others. Your friends are not "fed" to you. Sometimes you catch a friend in a thread in your main feed and this would be a pleasant surprise that invites you to click into your bro's profile, perhaps drop a line or two in the PM. organize a meetup. All of this is running in a decentralised, chaotic and synchronised way. We are in the early days of a totally different internet.