We can't beat or force ourselves or anyone else into anything, at least not long term. These are all things we must allow ourselves and others to do. Even if there is change from it, it will only be temporary. We must allow ourselves and others to heal, love ourselves and move forward with our lives. #grownostr

We put so much time, energy and attention on what we could have done to fix the relationship or the narcissist. This all takes time away from ourselves and our lives. More importantly, it holds us back and keeps us stuck thinking about them instead of moving forward in our lives. Bring your focus back to you! #grownostr