The target of the narcissist is often one of the only people who truly sees who they are. No one else usually gets it unless they’ve been through it and that’s ok. It doesn’t mean you didn’t actually experience the dark side of the narcissist or that the abuse didn’t happen. Only you know really what you went through. #grownostr

Narcissists want attention. That's one reason they cause chaos. It's the easiest way to get attention. Depending on what they think will get them the most attention, they will talk about being the best, or the best victim. It all comes down to attention. Either way they're better, according to them anyway. #grownostr

Narcissists definitely throw tantrums on the regular. I'm sure they'll all be offended by this description too. 🤣 I hope everyone is able to remove these people and their tantrums from their lives. It certainly makes life and moving forward much easier. #grownostr

It may not feel like it in the moment, in fact it probably feels awful, but being discarded by a narcissist is a gift. It allows us to get out and move forward with our lives without being hoovered back. Assuming it’s a final discard anyway. It’s still not easy, but it allows us to gain our freedom a little easier. #grownostr