It's an education you'll never forget and one no one ever wants. The only good news with this education is if you study well you'll only need this education once. Unfortunately if we don't do the work, we will probably have to repeat it more than once. Take the time and do the work! You are worth it! #grownostr image
It’s one of the most exciting times when I see my clients starting to get angry. It means we are making progress and they are allowing the emotions to surface and come out. Most of us don’t want to be angry and we don’t want to stay there, but we do need to get it out. I help survivors of narcissistic abuse reclaim their independence and manage their minds. Healing is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Never be beholden to anyone again including your own thoughts. Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio. #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #grownostr
The "love" and affection offered by a narcissist is a fragile illusion that's used for control and manipulation. When we begin to see the control and manipulation, it begins shattering the illusion of any actual love from them. It's never easy to see the truth, but it's better than living in the illusion. #grownostr image
We often try to figure out how to get the narcissists in our lives to love us. The reality is they will never love anyone including themselves. We must learn to give ourselves the love we deserve. We all deserve this love and we can learn to give it to ourselves. Do the work, you deserve the love! #grownostr image
Everyone gets to have a bad day or moment. When it becomes a pattern of mistreatment, that's abuse. No one deserves that. There is no justification for it and they don't value you. We all deserve people in our lives that value us. Find these people and let go of the rest. I help survivors of narcissistic abuse reclaim their independence and manage their minds. Healing is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Never be beholden to anyone again including your own thoughts. Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio. #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #grownostr image
Time only allows space to discharge the emotions a little, which makes it easier to let go of them. The emotions we let go of, which is part of healing, is only by accident. Unless we are actively consciously doing the work to heal, we won't make much progress and it will take much longer. We all deserve better than that and we are worth it. Make the time and do the work for you, your family and your future. I help survivors of narcissistic abuse reclaim their independence and manage their minds. Healing is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Never be beholden to anyone again including your own thoughts. Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio. #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #grownostr
Narcissists will vocally claim to love doing all the things they would never do with you, with their new supply. Then post about it on social media for you to see. They don't actually like it. They only like love bombing new supply and abusing old supply. Focus on you and your life and let them go! I help survivors of narcissistic abuse reclaim their independence and manage their minds. Healing is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Never be beholden to anyone again including your own thoughts. Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio. #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #grownostr image
Narcissists will try to destroy us no matter what. We can't give in to enough, or stay, or leave and have them just move on. It's not easy for anyone to get out and leave, but it's always better than staying if you can leave. Don't spend time trying to defend yourself, but hold those boundaries no matter what you decide. I help survivors of narcissistic abuse reclaim their independence and manage their minds. Healing is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Never be beholden to anyone again including your own thoughts. Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio. #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor
The good news about taking this masterclass is after you've done the work of healing you may never need to take this class again. If you do, the chances are it will be a much shorter class than the first time and you'll heal much quicker with less effort. This, unfortunately, is the only good news about this class. I help survivors of narcissistic abuse reclaim their independence and manage their minds. Healing is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Never be beholden to anyone again including your own thoughts. Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio. #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #grownostr image
Narcissists do everything they can to try to destroy our relationships with anyone else. If they can't just do that, they will plant little lies in our minds so we do it for them. It's not easy, but don't simply believe anything someone tells you about anyone else. This may save some good relationships from destruction. I help survivors of narcissistic abuse reclaim their independence and manage their minds. Healing is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Never be beholden to anyone again including your own thoughts. Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio. #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #grownostr