Yesterday I went a christening for my partners family, at an evangelical conservative church, on the one hand it’s made me way more confident in passing and but on the other oh god was it weird and anxiety driving walking into the belly of the beast. Hard to think 6 months ago I wouldn’t leave the house due to agoraphobia. Thank the gods for therapy

So this month I managed to actually pay back a loan, it wasn’t a big one but it was a payday loan that was costing me £91 a month I also managed to put £60 in savings, anyone who knows me knows that a few months ago this would have been totally un imaginable and I want to say thanks again to anyone who chipped in any amount during the darkest days of last year. Obviously I’m far from out of the woods debt wise yet, things are still precarious, but it’s moving in the right direction financially. Touch wood it continues

He’s a joke

Finally sort of recovered after a horrible bout of flu ughh

Anyone else have a cat that plays fetch ?

It’s 1 month since #trump was made president and it feels like 10 years, Jesus I can’t take 4 full years of a crisis every other week, can #America either just two A the fucker or can the UK and Europe just set the nukes off and end the world cos I’m ready for the cleansing fire.

There’s been essentially a media black out on trans voices in the UK for years now, with thrasphobes regularly given space in the news with next to no opposition sept a few part time cis allies who just aren’t equipped or invested enough in the issues. I’m starting to think trans people are only going to get air time if we form a “just stop transphobia” org and do a little targeted actions, think of Wes streetinga house got some new spray paint that might catch a headline at least

So word on the street is #labour have dropped there commitment to reform the #GRA, tbh I thought they already had tbh and imo there proposal was milquetoast at best anyway, don’t think I know any #trans person who wanted what labour proposed but it’s yet another betrayal by the Labour Party to add to the long list. I’d bet my house that by the end of the year the conversion therapy ban is also quietly dropped too, seems like too many high ups in labour are meeting with conversion therapy groups to put any trust in that ever being delivered.

made my desktop nice and minimalist #arch #linux

My cars off the road atm waiting for money for my MOT so I've borrowed my mums little sazuki swift that's over a decade old, ngl low key enjoying it, it's like driving a little go kart around 😂