I think we were meant to live slower than this. to grow tomatoes. to take afternoon walks. to cry without apologizing for it. to be bad at things and still do them. we weren’t designed for constant achievement. we were meant for moments. small, soft, that somehow mean everything.
Nobody is more stressed than a 19-29 yrs thinking they are running out of time 🥹
Just saw a TikTok that says “We are all selective sinners. We choose the sins we are comfortable with, and judge the people who commit the sins we're not comfortable with” and I’m afraid this is true 😭
My unpopular opinions:
📚Society doesn't want women to be happy. It wants them to be useful.
📚Think about it: motherhood isn't treated like something sacred; it's more like a strategy. It keeps women exhausted, tied down, emotionally drained, financially dependent... and way too busy to burn the system down.
📚So when a woman says: "Yeah, I'm not going to play that role," people don't get angry because she's selfish.
They get angry because she's free.
📚Some of us weren't born to play along.
📚Some of us were made to question the whole damn system.
📚What's something you were taught to believe about being a "good woman" that you've had to unlearn? I want to hear your story 👇👇👇