Notice how this man avoids eye contact at the beginning of the video. This is an example of a man who is refusing to take personal responsibility for his actions. He uses his Libertarian beliefs as a way to avoid personal accountability. He is trying to use his political stance as a way to cover up and excuse his own abusive behavior. Notice he did not ask the women and girls at his gym how they felt about his presence in places where they get naked, he asked the business about their policy. He is ultimately saying it is the right of business owners to create policies that facilitate the abuse of women and girls. He now only condones abusive policies, he participates in them and is willing to personally benefit from them. He KNOWS that women say "NO" to men in women's spaces, he KNOWS girls cannot consent to men in women's spaces, and yet he uses them. There is NEVER an excuse for men to violate the physical boundaries of women and girls in their intimate spaces.

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I don't care if a man is having a mental issue that causes him to reject his sex, access to naked women and girls is not a mental health treatment.

Access to naked women and girls is not a mental health cure. It is narcissistic and abusive to try to force others to be tools for your mental health treatment.

Watch out for the “empathy traps.” This man has slightly feminized his appearance and appeals to our empathy asking “what are people like me supposed to do, use the men’s room?” Answer: I honestly don’t care, just stay out of the women’s room. Women are not responsible for men’s style choices. He can use the men’s, find a unisex, or wear a diaper, take some goddamn personal responsibility for your actions. No one told you to do this. The consequences are on you.

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From one mental health professional to another:

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Picture from my infusion treatment today. Battling stage 3 breast cancer has given me more personal insights than I already knew about embodiment. I have been fighting breast cancer for almost a year now and have about 8 more months to go. One major success was being able to reduce my tumor in such a way that I was able to get a lumpectomy rather than the full mastectomy. My major reason for wanting the lumpectomy rather than the mastectomy was to be able to retain as much sensation as possible. The first surgeon I saw who was heavily pushing me to choose the mastectomy kept telling me that despite losing my whole breast, how great my breasts would look after plastic surgery and that no one would be able to tell. The doctor told me this was my opportunity to “get the boob job you always wanted.” I let the doctor know, I never wanted a boob job. But I was clear to me that the doctor assumed I would prioritize how I looked to others rather than how I felt in my own body. Caring more about how you externally appear to others rather than how you feel in your own body is a symptom of self objectification. Only other people really look at you. Except for looking in the mirror for grooming, we don’t really look at ourselves. When I am immersed in activity, I am not looking at myself, I am experiencing myself. To constantly hold in one’s mind how others perceive you while you are experiencing is compartmentalizing and separating. Self objectification separates us from wholly immersing ourselves in being and experiencing, it keeps us from intimacy with ourselves and intimacy from our experiences. Trans ideology is concerned with constant self objectification and constant management of controlling how others perceive you. This is mentally and emotionally exhausting. It is also highly dissociative behavior. It dissociates the person from being fully themselves because they are more concerned with managing external perceptions than just being. There are so many reasons this ideology harms those who practice it, and one of the biggest harms is dissociation from intimacy with self.

Brianna Wu showed up on the scene yesterday and is promoting himself as a "rational trans" and getting gigs on television and independent as the Free Press. This is what controlled opposition and manufacturing consent look like. He may say he is against the sterilization and mutilation of children, but look at his actions rather than his charming words. By promoting his identity as innate, he is promoting and glamorizing drugging and mutilating children. He is normalizing his behavior and desensitizing others to the boundary violations of men who claim special identities. Look at his actions. This is what he is doing. This is the basic lesson of Little Red Riding Hood, to use your senses and regard the man under the disguise, to read actions rather than charm. The wolf lies and says he is the grandmother. It is up to Little Red Riding Hood to look at the wolf's actions rather than his charming words.

Allowing taboos to become normalized harms all of society. Pedopilia is a dangerous paraphilia that is strongly linked to criminality and other paraphilias. Cultural taboos serve as a natural safety mechanism for communities by establishing boundaries of acceptable behavior, thereby promoting social cohesion, reducing conflict, and protecting shared values. Taboos reflect historical lessons, environmental adaptations, and moral/ethical considerations. Further, they are a primary safeguarding tool. Unfortunately the prevalence of propaganda such as “no kink shaming,” is eroding the prohibitive effect of our most primal safeguarding taboos.